Dear Bama...

So I would love to know what other people think of this - if I am being too picky or if it is really *IS* gross - My husband pees in the sinks, all the time (sober, drunk, whatever/whenever)... I have told him it bothers me, but he doesn't care and he will not stop. I wash my face in that sink and brush my teeth. I think it's so gross (on occasion he misses and there are trickles down the side). Am I "being picky" like he says or do I have a valid concern?

I have no idea what to do about this. Please help.